Face " itch for seven years " Couple should love the valueing quality more than amount

Face " itch for seven years " Couple should love the valueing quality more than amount
Face " itch for seven years " Couple should love the valueing quality more than amount
Case: We and bed sleep, but no longer affectionate Yang Gang and face are red is university classmates, they were combined by the freedom to choose one's spouse. Yang Gang is the civil servants of the government bodies of the city, the face becomes a teacher in the middle school red. Their length of service is 8 years, 7 years marriageable age, the daughter is 6 years old. How 's happiness, happiness is the family in stranger's view, but who knows, the crisis of the marriage is approaching to them. In most recent half years, Yang Gang is colder and colder to the sexual behavior. Lie in the evening and go to bed, Yang Gang sends out the rhythmical sound of snoring, the face is looking at the husband's posture in sleep red, feel all sorts of feelings well up, want to shake and wake up him and but think of fatigue that he works, withdraws the hands stretched out. One evening, face red to can't help really, want, it has affectionate over husbands to be affectionate with two more than month very much. She calls him softly, he has moved the something small and hard of leaving, the ambiguous way in the mouth: "Don't make a noise, I plunge to death! " In the face of sample of the husband, Yan Hong can't fall asleep again. It is in bed to think of two people several years ago " Loath to part from each other " ,Now husband unexpectedly " Open without sending " ,it answer by " the itch when it is annual in seven " really Statement? Itch worm: Gang and the intersection of face and these kind that appear among being red Yang " The sex is tired of " The phenomenon, there is certain universality on couple who have got married for many years. The intersection of couple and " the sex tired " Production,it is mostly because of couple life,it is forever "at the same time, places, posture, movements the sames the same the same" . In the unchanged repetition of fine long hair day by day, just like we have a meal, even if plenty of meat and fish of meal meal, never vary the taste, eating long will have no appetite too. A copy of research materials says, the two sexes will produce one kind and call the different chemical material of third amine of benzene while loving in their brain stems, this is a kind of neural excitant, it can make people become sentimentally attached to affectionately, warmly and excitedly, but in a segment is loved, such as lacking the new stimulus, different secretion of third amine of benzene will be fewer and fewer. Recently, in authoritative magazine " Nature " of natural science of the whole world, issued the new discovery of the researchers of British Liz university: They have carried on research to the mating behavior of the chicken of Hongyuan, found finally the new companion can evoke the sexual desire of the male chicken of Hongyuan, at the same time if you can't can make on sperm quantity when its is internal, increase,but cock in with with when not mate one of chickens femalesing, arrange precise quantity and nearly decrease progressively one by one. With mate with a female chicken for about 20 timesing, cock's sexual desire is arranged again precisely completely. But if a strange female chicken appears, the sexual desire of the cock will rise of itself. Obviously, this research reveals, changing the new spouse seems to be a kind of biological instincts. Originally novel and romantic sexual life in ecstasies, if begin to become dull, dull, has become routine business, even become a kind of obligation and born, this indicates couple's emotion is desalinized, the marriage relation faces the crisis. Back-scratcher: Overcome the sex among couple and is tired of, at first, should just make couple life change to some extent. These changes include the changes of time, place, posture and movement,etc., can also make some pleasant surprise for the other side artificially sometimes. Secondly, couple should pay attention to the quality of each sexual life. Such as paying attention to " The play before the sex " And " the sex winds up " ,Not merely pursue sexual intercourse and shut those a few time. Those ideal couple, when they have sexual desire that hope to reduce too, but they understand this is a very natural thing, perhaps it is the cycle of the human body that changes, therefore does not go to impose, but wait for the constant accumulation of the desire slowly. During this period of time to wait for, they will arrange for various activities to adjust physical and psychological states of both sides, or separate for some time on purpose, strengthen both sides to miss with the space-time distance, reach " too small to win newly-marriedly " Result. Meanwhile, they do not hold any sanctimonious hypocrite while passing the sexual life, but display oneself to one's heart's content. One thought out some some changes, for example changed the place to make love on the floor from bed, another meeting is responded to joyfully. They are still studying on the sex skill constantly, are practising constantly, and is innovating constantly. To them, each sexual life can become a kind of brand-new attempt, therefore must bring brand-new other of experience, should handle the spacing interval of couple life well. Pay attention to getting hold of the duration and degree of heating, the quality without weight that should be heavier, make the husband " wait for chance of apprearance " ,Though the quantity of couple life has been reduced, has guaranteed the quality of each sexual love. So long as the husband makes reason and wife clear, the wife will not probably embarrass the husband. Moreover, a high-quality sexual life, can make couple get the satisfaction of enjoying oneself to heart's content, sexual behavior in the next round place great expectations, than those kind of hasty " fast food nature life " that acts this further Eager to excel in whatever one does. (Rui of one heart Neo-Confucianism Dr. Zhang)


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