Mother of infant of self-closing disease in Qingdao states the mind experience Call upon the whole society to improve and pay attention to
Mother of infant of self-closing disease in Qingdao states the mind experience Call upon the whole society to improve and pay attention to
" have a self-closing disease child, it is not a shame-faced thing, " The promoter of educational institution, headmaster Fang Jing say to reporters that recover with Lin's self-closing disease in Qingdao, " I am proud of my son, he one contains, improves oneself, the benevolent good child by oneself " . Fang Jing's son, discovered and suffer from self-closing disease at the age of three, the language function begins to degradate at the age of four, can't go to school alone, can't associate with people. Through Fang Jing's concentrated treatment in 18 years, he is that the finance of University of Macao is students in sophomore period now, optimistic English whose he is will one mouthful fluent of sunshine, help some need self-closing disease infant that help often, he is praised as the self-closing disease infant " The miracle of recovering " . On the 3rd, Fang Jing told reporter about her and accompanied the experience that the son recovers for over ten years. It is here to live for a time" In the darkness " Son of her at the age of 6 can't go to school alone, Fang Jing accompany one's spouse who is studying abroad a solid year. Fang Jing says, this period of time, she sees every day one's own child and normal child disparity are big, make her very painful, has been living a very dark life all the time. She never dares to walk under the sunshine, never the strong light appears in the family, seldom associate with others too. Gradually, she begins to think her son is very good, he is very happy, since everybody has a form of one's own life, she can admit such a son. Fang Jing tells reporters: " it makes me go out of the dark again sunshine gradually that it is the admittance to the son " . It was once a professor of Qingdao university to give up the undertaking and accompany the child Fang Jing attentively, have admirable jobs. Since learning children have suffered from it since closing disease, she has decided to give up one's own career resolutely, accompany it at child's side for 24 hours. "I a proud one most, I totally can understand my child, I have studied and admitted him completely over the past 18 years, from admitting to respect him. " Fang Jing says, she wants to do more things, teacher from companion, classmate of primary school, university friend of his kindergarten to him for the son ceaselessly, she never conceals the child's condition, the very brave one tells all persons who can help him in the face of them, how could help him. Established organization's help to suffer from 11 years ago more, because several self-closing disease children did not have locality that went to school, Fang Jing and several parents rent the house of the room of shroud two, employ 3 people, let children study inside. What made Fang Jing not expect is, this " family " Kindergarten develop until today, be accepted by more than 300 self-closing disease child, possession more than 100 teacher scales larges already for every year. And already been up to 15%-20%, has occupied first place with the recovery rate of Lin school. Fang Jing says, ones that have kept in touch more since closing disease infant's family, let herself have sense of duty and sense of calling slowly. She hopes to make the health of China teach the organization to joint together through their efforts, help more self-closing disease children. The infant parents should be understood mother as a self-closing disease infant by the external world, Fang Jing is candid through the recovery course in these 18 years, she knows very well self-closing disease is really very serious disease, the unidentified reason does not have a therapeutic method. She realizes the self-closing disease child's parents, that need most is to understand. Understanding, the neighbour's understanding, the colleague's understanding, the leader's understanding of the school. Fang Jing says, " only understand, could admit children. The child of the self-closing disease is likewise an honourable life, they should not be discriminated against, should be paid attention to. They have born more agony, should give them more love. " Call upon the whole society to improve and pay attention to and already take the disabled the first place of all kinds of spirit in the morbidity of China's self-closing disease according to the incomplete statistics. The national self-closing disease infant's number has reached more than 1 million, 104,000 children before age of its middle school, and the morbidity rises year by year, about 30% of the children among them miss the chance of recovering because of the reason of lacking the money, neglected etc.. Fang Jing wants to tell parents, if find children can't look at each other without will speak, not have kindred sense, eyes ing, when the interest is narrower, it can't place hope on that growing up can take a favorable turn to look out. If has already found children are self-closing disease, let alone give oneself up as hopeless, please study a speciality again patiently, bravery helps children as much as possible in the face of reality. Fang Jing appeals for the public finally: "Please understand us, admit us, self-closing disease is actually not so terrible. If you stretch out friendly hands, they will become happier. Son of me can have today, because the intersection of we and side admit people of him while being a group of. " (build the ox of China and know Na)
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