The man in Qingdao is unexpected to find the wife oversteps the limit Stab oneself 30 times from cruel two months

The man in Qingdao is unexpected to find the wife oversteps the limit Stab oneself 30 times from cruel two months
The man in Qingdao is unexpected to find the wife oversteps the limit Stab oneself 30 times from cruel two months
It was day of mental hygiene of world yesterday, the mental hygiene centre of the city held and volunteered medical consultation in Taitung pedestrian street, during this time, the expert introduces the typical case together to the reporter, because the wife and the improper relation happens to the customer, 29 -year-old Li Song (assumed name) Can't stand going out of the wall of the wife, choose to bring the knife to since mediate the gloom in the heart cruelly, left arm and belly have nearly 30 tool marks when being found by family. Expert analyze, the reason why appear end of love, go out of wall, cruel behavior since, reason whether couple link up, go wrong. Find in surprise the wife oversteps the limit to it is introduced, 29 -year-old Li Song is a handsome big boy of Qingdao Three years ago with the wife was young and red (assumed name) After getting married, have been loving the wife deeply all the time, but he has fewer at ordinary times, so seem more wooden, it is very busy to work all the time since getting married, though family's condition is good, have never wanted the child. But he often has unusual behavior to find the wife young and red half a year ago: If there are strange numbers etc. while recording in deletion, news report after the family phones, receives and dispatches messages in a low voice immediately, this has caused suspicion that Li looses. After once had a meal in invited guest's family, small to come back home over 3 o'clock before dawn while being red, Li Song can't help having a row with the wife, just produce the fact that she oversteps the limit from one in wife's mouth. "Know after the wife oversteps the limit, he is very calm, have not almost quarrelled over. " City the intersection of mental hygiene and WeiHua Pan, expert in diagnosing the diseases of centre, introduce, he find Li loose, like little and red very much in the psychological consultation, even after knowing that wife and the improper relation happens to the customer, he still tolerates the wife, we can say the love and hate are interweaved very confusedly in his mind. Can't bear heavy pressure take knife since under cruel psychological pressure increase severely, work of Song Li nearly fall into disuse, ask for leave at home staring flankly often, but it is unable to face the husband for wife to feel, propose living apart, "Li loose and look for the wife frequently, hope to resume living live apart. " Pan WeiHua says, Li actually looses at this moment already heart havoc, does not know at all how to exchange with wife, can't love the wife as well as stand the wife's betrayal, he picks up fruits and pitches oneself under the heavy pressure, could be a bit more comfortable in the heart under pain, over two month, he has left more than 30 scars on the body, the deepest one sews 6 stitches. "Family come to convince him by patient analysis, discover scars and bloodstains on him accidentally, if family find he does not often go to work, but he has already closed one's ears to others' advice. " The expert claims, after patients are sent to the hospital by force, make a definite diagnosis of serious anxious disease and depression through checking, necessary hospital treatment. Often fall " The psychological rubbish " "Once the marriage suffers crisis, extremely painful in the party's heart, if does not mediate in time, will unavoidably present situations such as emotion betraying, behavior disorder,etc.. According to couple, it is not accidental that the wife oversteps the limit definitely, it must be that the marriage go wrong, and after learning the wife oversteps the limit, the husband, since the cruel behavior can only bring more agony. " Pan WeiHua finds in connecting and examining, couple communicate little between two people, daily life is very trifling, the husband loves the wife deeply, but the wife does not feel at all. The expert thinks, after presenting these questions, should learn to let somebody " pour the rubbish " ,That is to let somebody pour out, relative, friend, psychologist, even can speak out freely between couple, because only show the problem and may solve, it could be sober that psychological pressure leads people off out, would not make thing that regret under being excited. (Chen Ke)


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