The net friend calculates that gets along with parents for time and calculates that cried How does the expert give an idea to fulfil one's duty to one's parents

The net friend calculates that gets along with parents for time and calculates that cried How does the expert give an idea to fulfil one's duty to one's parents
The net friend calculates that gets along with parents for time and calculates that cried How does the expert give an idea to fulfil one's duty to one's parents
He, forgot mother's birthday not long ago, guilty endlessly. Work as, hear one of mother " child, what birthday does it pass? " He has sour nose. She, works in Changsha in Anhui of native place, celebrates the New Year and goes home once every year. Have done one on the net " How long can be regarded as you still can accompany parents " Behind the question, she cry, " regard as, I can accompany parents, almost only one month. " When to the end of the year,what has been thought of one's parents with affection mood strong more and more,but regard as you conscientiously, you that be grown to manhood, after marrying and settling down, how much there is time when it can be with parents really on earth? " it is not a child, it spends anything birthday " Tang Li is 27 years old this year, the native place is in Hunan pool, the slope community of school of hillfoot district settles down temporarily in the high mountain after work. After graduation from university originally, he had ever hung back to go back to the hometown, but a very good working opportunity has been confronted, let him choose to stay in Changsha. Tang Li says, it is not very far from Changsha to Hunan pool, the chance to fulfil one's duty to one's parents like this is numerous too. Because the native place is in the countryside, Tang Li's mother spends birthday the first day of October of lunar calendar. Saturday not happenedding the first day this year October, the intersection of Tang and profit, because and friend have pieces of activity nearly, not going home, and he forgets this day it is mother's birthday. While going to work on Monday, Tang Li continues a telephone of father's, " the son, why have not you gone home this week? Do you know what day Saturday is? " Tang Li thinks carefully, just remembers it is mother's birthday. Tang Li makes a phone call and wants to apologize to mother at once, at the other end of the telephone, mother says calmly, "it is busy to know you, and then say it is not a child, what birthday pass? " At this moment, Tang Li is reticent, the nose tingles. Guilty Tang Li wants to want to see that give mother some compensation, after searching for a period of time on the net, he search out one model suddenly " it regards as lifetime this to be can until how often mum get along still? " Regard as, Tang Li this feel oneself accompany parents' time too little and too little. Every great forum of this calculation question spread wide to calculate how long you still can accompany parents. "If you and mother separate two places, how many times annual you go back? How many days is once? The Chinese average life span is 72 years old, even if mother goes beyond 13 years old, live to the age of 85, let it be, how long can you still get along with mother on earth this lifetime? " Live the intersection of way and the intersection of bridge and the intersection of Residential Area and military the intersection of Ms. and 30 year old this year, live in Anhui, graduate, work in Changsha, parents have been living in the native place. The military lady says, " stay in Changsha and work after graduating, just go home once on the Spring Festival in one year, the time really at home is less than 5 days. In 5 days, probably have two or three days to go out and have a get-together, treat with courtesy with the friend. The time left excepts and has a meal to sleep and do shopping in the street, can really accompany mother's time to probably have one day and about 24 hours only. " "Mother is 55 years old this year, if mother's longevity lives to the age of 85, in 30 years in most lonely those of hers, I can around her time less than 720 hour, almost one month! " The military lady says, calculate she has cried after the result, she wants to put parents through at one's side, but they say that " live comfortably in the native place. " Shine out the result of calculation too obviously with Li that parents live together. "I live at home after graduation from university, parents will go to work in the daytime, so the supper time of about that hour really got along. And I probably have 3 days to have supper at home every week, that is to say, the time with mother is only 3 hours every week me, it is 156 hours in one year. 50 of mother year old, 85 minus equal after 50 by 35 year,times not 156 hour equal 5460 hour for 35 times, equivalent to for 227.5 day, only 7 zero 17.5 day month, marrying and situation which parents inhabit separately that this also will exclude me afterwards. " Get along how let parents to be happy originally time, time that get along with parents does not as what we imagined long. How get along with parents we then, let they happily? For this reason, reporters of deep and clear morning paper of Hunan have interviewed psychological consultation teacher He QunQun in the country second, ask her to give an idea. As to unmarried children, He QunQun says, " consider the personal question early, especially above the average age for marriage and single, most such parents will feel glad from the bottom of heart. " As to the thing that the person who has already got married comes, He QunQun proposes, can try three following methods. "Present young people are busy, after there are children, the parents retiring become the full-time nurse. But not thought, parents are in order to take children, give up much one's own happiness. " He QunQun says, young people give parents " put and have a holiday " on two-day weekend ,Take children with parents, or bring parents outing of going out with child. "Tell parents that own things make parents happy more too. " He QunQun says, a lot of people thought that came back home to visit parents, parents' health had already fulfilled one's duty to one's parents if greeted, in fact, parents hope to exchange with you, want to understand one's own child more. In addition, He QunQun also proposes buying vegetables and cooking with parents, it is close to the sense to increase parents and one's own one like this, also a good way of fulfilling one's duty to one's parents. (deep and clear the intersection of Hunan and morning paper roll the intersection of newspaper-man and summer the intersection of intern and Sun Hao Sheng)


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